Adoption Fraud
It is important to distinguish between an adoption scam and a "disrupted" or "failed" adoption. A birth parent changing their mind about placing a child for adoption is generally not a scam, as they have a legal right to change their mind. A scam involves deliberate deception from the outset.
Common Types of Adoption Fraud:
- Fabricated Matching / False Promises: Fictitious birth mothers who aren't pregnant, or individuals with no intention of placing their baby for adoption, seeking financial assistance.
- Double Matching: A birth mother or an unethical facilitator matches the same baby to multiple families, collecting money from each.
- Fee-Related Scams: Exorbitant upfront fees, hidden fees, or pressure to send money directly to an expectant parent.
- Impersonation and Unlicensed Providers: Falsely claiming to be licensed adoption agencies or operating as unregulated "facilitators."
Red Flags of Adoption Scams:
- Unsolicited contact from an expectant parent or agency.
- Pressure and urgency to make immediate decisions or payments.
- Vague or inconsistent information regarding medical records or licensing.
- Refusal to involve licensed adoption professionals.
- Direct money requests via untraceable methods.
How to Protect Yourself:
- Work with Licensed Professionals: Choose a licensed, experienced adoption agency or attorney and verify their credentials.
- Do Your Due Diligence: Research thoroughly and understand all fee structures.
- Verify Information Independently: Insist on verifiable proof of pregnancy from a medical provider.
